Girl Talk

[Fantasy]

Oh boy. I can't believe I started a thread that has grown to 50 pages. Brings a tear to my eye.

But other than that, I bet none of you are thrilled with this poll that I left. I will take it down. And come up with a new witty one sometime in the near future.
I think. =)



Question:      Favorite Gilmore Girls Season
Season 1    - 6 (14.6%)
Season 2    - 4 (9.8%)
Season 3    - 12 (29.3%)
Season 4    - 4 (9.8%)
Season 5    - 8 (19.5%)
Season 6    - 2 (4.9%)
Season 7    - 5 (12.2%)

[LoveMe011]

I lik ur go with the flow attitude. I try to live with that perspective to but every once in awhile it goes way. Im only 15 ( i know my profile says im older but ignore that  ) and im still learning but ive dealt with enough in life to know that livin with a life full of stress and unhappiness doesnt get ya anywhere.So bring on the happy 

Oh yea, it definitely gets hard sometimes, especially at your age, to look past the drama and hold on to what IS meaningful in life. I had a good friend who passed away two and a half years ago, and since that happened, I just can't get so caught up in day-to-day crap...none of it matters to me anymore. You guys may know this firsthand, but I hope you don't...but when someone close to you passes away, especially at a young age, you realize that each moment could be the last one you're given to live, and it's totally up to you what you do with it. I just choose to live my life like each day is my last, and that's what carries me through the trials that used to overwhelm me.

[tennischic]

Yeah thats a good meaning to live by. I changed alot this past year. The way i look and the way i am. Some ppl accpeted it some didnt. I made a friend my freshman year of hs and she was screwed up and no matter how much she hurt me in  the end she helped me grow as a person as much as i hate to admit it. She made an impact and left some scars but in the end i wouldnt change a thing.

Im sry bout ur friend. I wish i could say i can relate but that would be a lie. But if ya ever need to talk im here. Always 

[Lovefiend]

LoveMe011 that rocks, the Richard Gilmore thing!!! I would've squealed at him!!

[Lauren is my idol]

I do not hold up well when it comes to my drama.... I never really tell anyone about what's going on in my life for some reason, but I just recently learned that it really does feel SO much better to just let things out and cry about it. I learned that actually a few days ago when I was talking to my best friends about things. There is really a feeling of relief when I talk to people about things, and it's a really good feeling.
I've changed a lot this year with the way I look at things. I am a very pessimistic person usually, but I've realized this year after this one night that I really need to change the kind of person I am. I get annoyed with myself with some of the ways that I act and I realized it's about time to change that. I'm 16 and I know I have a lot more time to grow into who I want to be, but for now, I'm going to try to change the way I act and how I handle my stress...

[Lovefiend]

I'm like a little clam, I keep everything inside. I dunno, just don't like to talk about stuff, it seems very pointless and ineffective. I always believe if it doesn't kill you, it will only make you stronger, and I pretty much just live by that.

[gracelandia]

I'm like a little clam, I keep everything inside. I dunno, just don't like to talk about stuff, it seems very pointless and ineffective. I always believe if it doesn't kill you, it will only make you stronger, and I pretty much just live by that.

I'm like that too, that I never like to talk about any of my problems too much.  Only, I'm very lucky that I don't have a ton of problems.  And the ones I do I take less seriously than I probably should.

[Lauren is my idol]

Well I was like that, and still am the majority of the time... But keeping it all inside made me acquire depression over the years and it just gets worse the more I hide things in...so relieving things kind of helps, but I still leave out a lot.

[Lovefiend]

I've spent more time than I care to remember sitting on psyhicatrists' couches, talking about my bullshit, and it never helped me!!
That's just me though, some people need to talk about stuff, and that is aaaaall good. I'm just not one of 'em. And thank god, I talk enough as it is!

[LoveMe011]

Yeah thats a good meaning to live by. I changed alot this past year. The way i look and the way i am. Some ppl accpeted it some didnt. I made a friend my freshman year of hs and she was screwed up and no matter how much she hurt me in  the end she helped me grow as a person as much as i hate to admit it. She made an impact and left some scars but in the end i wouldnt change a thing.

Im sry bout ur friend. I wish i could say i can relate but that would be a lie. But if ya ever need to talk im here. Always 

Thanks a lot Pretty stick..haha.

[LoveMe011]

I do not hold up well when it comes to my drama.... I never really tell anyone about what's going on in my life for some reason, but I just recently learned that it really does feel SO much better to just let things out and cry about it. I learned that actually a few days ago when I was talking to my best friends about things. There is really a feeling of relief when I talk to people about things, and it's a really good feeling.
I've changed a lot this year with the way I look at things. I am a very pessimistic person usually, but I've realized this year after this one night that I really need to change the kind of person I am. I get annoyed with myself with some of the ways that I act and I realized it's about time to change that. I'm 16 and I know I have a lot more time to grow into who I want to be, but for now, I'm going to try to change the way I act and how I handle my stress...

I'd say that's a wonderful idea! I think once you figure out a better way to handle your stress and deal with drama, you'll find that your life is so much more fun and you'll have time to do what you enjoy. When I was in high school, I took notice of how much other people thrived on drama and gossip and things the generally just didn't matter in the realm of eternal significance. What matters to me is my relationship with God, my family, and my TRUE friends...and when I was caught up in the "crap," I had no time to enjoy those things. My junior year, I decided to change my perspective and start living for things that mattered, not for things that didn't. I think if you make that change now, this early in your life, you'll be so satisfied with how things change for you. You only have one life, and life really is short...people complain about their situations and when things don't go your way, but life really is what you make it. We have more control over things than we like to think we do...it's all basically based on your frame of mind. My way of dealing with drama is pretty much to ignore it nowadays...lol.

Okay, I'm putting my soapbox away for now. Let me know if ya need to talk!

[Lauren is my idol]

Yeah, I'm entering my junior year in high school this year. It's not all girly drama though, mostly within my family... Not like gossip and friend drama. You're right though, life is short and you have to make the best of it... but have fun too .

[LoveMe011]

Yeah, I'm entering my junior year in high school this year. It's not all girly drama though, mostly within my family... Not like gossip and friend drama. You're right though, life is short and you have to make the best of it... but have fun too .

Ohhh yea...ALWAYS make time for fun

[mrs.lexie lou lou]

hi my names alexis and i was wondering if someone could help me figure something out? some of my friends make fun of me alot ive told them to stop and they say they will but they never do. whenever they need help i try to help them like a good friend should becaus :(e besides the making fun of me thier good people. i guss i just imagend my friends try to stand up for me when someone makes fun of me but instead they laugh and make jokes about me behind my back and when im standing next to them. now thier starting to make fun of my other friend who doesnt make fun of me like they do because of her attitude. i just dont know what to do. could someone help me figure things out?

[gilmorefriend]

Alexis- What should you do: Tell them how you feel. They really aren't being good friends. And stand up for your other friend who they're being mean too. If you talk to them and they won't stop, maybe you should try to make some better friends...