Girl Talk

[tennischic]

Well we usually rant and talk about our girl problems and stuff  Its a thread where you can talk bout anything and we wont judge but try to help. And thnx for the prettystick! So bring up something to talk bout cause if i do i could go on foerver . Go back lik  3-4 pages and read my firstpost. its amusin.

[tennischic]

Ok sry to double post but i have an issue. So i went to play tennis today and me and my friend went onto the courts to warm up cause Coach Dude told us to go on the courts . So we r standing there talking and im bouncing the ball and i serve it and the racket hits my friend in the face and she gets a busted lip and he tooth is broken. It totally blooded up the courts. But coach dude is back now - he went up to his office after he told us to go on the court to wait for him - and tells me to take my friend up to the pavillion and he is tellin me bout fuckin court etiquite. WTF? and then goes and gets my friend water , not ice which she needed, and is askin bout his courts which - god frobid - have blood on them. He had brought down our personel trainer to and he is tellin me to be quiet and i was lik hell no! So we go get my friends grandmother , i got my friend ice by the way not our ccoach now, and she is askin bout insurance. And so we leave and our coach lied bout wat happened to the administrater and now they wont pay for the doctor bill which was ALOT so we have to go tommorow to tell them what really happened and deal with attorneys. they got attorneys involved! But yeah this day has been hell. And that was the short version. - sigh- and all this is my fault.

[Lauren is my idol]

It's not your fault, you didn't mean to do it. Don't be so hard on yourself. You did it by accident. If you did it on purpose and felt bad about it later, that's one thing. But don't put yourself down too much for an accident. I mean, you didn't kill her or anything, or like severely injure her. I think that they're taking it way too far..

[tennischic]

They are and over freaken insurance. Its sad stuff and we might have to join a new tennis club if this ends ugly though and that really kills me cause i luv the place i go now. We have to go tommorow to try to fix & end this. Hopefully it ends peacefully..

[steph_]

letus know how it ends
i wish only for the best

[tennischic]

Thnx i really hope it goes well to...but ill sleep on it and take it as i go. My best friend will be with me the whole time so ill be ok.
So does anyone besides me have drama in there life at the moment? 

[steph_]

Thnx i really hope it goes well to...but ill sleep on it and take it as i go. My best friend will be with me the whole time so ill be ok.
So does anyone besides me have drama in there life at the moment? 

not reallly
im just helping at a camp and this kid ate 3 feathers last week.
really misbehvingbut this week hes good!

[tennischic]

Well ya know what they say. What goes in must come out and im sure that wasnt pleasant comin out  Ewe! But atleast ur life is stress free i ALWAYS have drama. Usually its more than one thing to. Icky yet riveting.

[Lovefiend]

Honey, I aaaaalways have drama in my life. But not the fun tennis-court kind!! The serious, no-one wants to hear it kind!!
Hope your Ally McBeal time is short, and you get all the legal crap over with, and it turns out okay. Technically, you can't be sued for anything, you're a minor, who was playing there. They can sue your instructor for negligence, they could try go to small claims court, and make out like you did it on purpose, but i'm pretty sure it's obvious tha tyou didn't, and therefore wouldn't have a problem.

[LoveMe011]

Ok sry to double post but i have an issue. So i went to play tennis today and me and my friend went onto the courts to warm up cause Coach Dude told us to go on the courts . So we r standing there talking and im bouncing the ball and i serve it and the racket hits my friend in the face and she gets a busted lip and he tooth is broken. It totally blooded up the courts. But coach dude is back now - he went up to his office after he told us to go on the court to wait for him - and tells me to take my friend up to the pavillion and he is tellin me bout fuckin court etiquite. WTF? and then goes and gets my friend water , not ice which she needed, and is askin bout his courts which - god frobid - have blood on them. He had brought down our personel trainer to and he is tellin me to be quiet and i was lik hell no! So we go get my friends grandmother , i got my friend ice by the way not our ccoach now, and she is askin bout insurance. And so we leave and our coach lied bout wat happened to the administrater and now they wont pay for the doctor bill which was ALOT so we have to go tommorow to tell them what really happened and deal with attorneys. they got attorneys involved! But yeah this day has been hell. And that was the short version. - sigh- and all this is my fault.

yeah, that definitely is NOT all your fault. Granted, you hit your friend in the face, but it was a total accident...you weren't fooling around, you were serving the ball and an accident happened. your coach needs to chill out, and based on the fact that he lied to the administration about what happened, i'd say you need a new coach as well. i hate that you guys had to get attorneys involved and that insurance has to be dealt with...just as long as you and your friend are still okay as friends, i'd say everything is going to be fine. let everyone else handle the business aspect and just make sure everyone knows what ACTUALLY happened out there...i hate that you had to experience something like that, but i promise things will work out. it may not seem like it at the moment because you're in the middle of it all, but just give it some time.

[tennischic]

@ lovefiend - Well hon trust me my drama does not all happen on the tennis court. I only wish it did but it does not.
And yeah i know they cant get me for anything but we met this morning and my coach lied AGAIN and i dont think my friend is gonna get the insurance money so im just gonna pay for eveything cause i really just want this to go away. Plus im fallin behind on tennis and that could cause some issues.


@ Cassy - Yeah i know bout my coach but i cant get a new one cause he works with our schoool team so ill have to work with him anyways -sigh-  but yes me and my friend are good she never blamed me for it and i appprciated that even though it was my fault. She is really pissed at our coach thouygh for lyin and i dont blame her one bit cause he screwed himself over when he did that. I know this willl all blow over though i just have to give it time. I am gonna tell the claim guys what happened and geta new coach i guess and let this end. I think thats whats best.

[LoveMe011]

I just had to tell you guys this..I'm at work answering phones and taking over-the-phone orders, and I just had a guy call to place an order. So I said "What's your name sir?" and he goes "Richard Gilmore."

It took everything in my not to laugh at him.
That was crazy.

[LoveMe011]

@ Cassy - Yeah i know bout my coach but i cant get a new one cause he works with our schoool team so ill have to work with him anyways -sigh-  but yes me and my friend are good she never blamed me for it and i appprciated that even though it was my fault. She is really pissed at our coach thouygh for lyin and i dont blame her one bit cause he screwed himself over when he did that. I know this willl all blow over though i just have to give it time. I am gonna tell the claim guys what happened and geta new coach i guess and let this end. I think thats whats best.[/i]

i totally agree. i myself have been in some pretty sticky situations that i couldn't figure out how to handle..it just felt like they were over my head. I'm only 20 years old, but that best lesson I've learned in my 20 years is not to stress out or worry about things like that, because no matter how much you worry, it won't change the outcome, and you might as well be calm and enjoy life...because life is way too short to worry it all away.

[tennischic]

I lik ur go with the flow attitude. I try to live with that perspective to but every once in awhile it goes way. Im only 15 ( i know my profile says im older but ignore that  ) and im still learning but ive dealt with enough in life to know that livin with a life full of stress and unhappiness doesnt get ya anywhere.So bring on the happy 

[Lauren is my idol]

I just had to tell you guys this..I'm at work answering phones and taking over-the-phone orders, and I just had a guy call to place an order. So I said "What's your name sir?" and he goes "Richard Gilmore."

It took everything in my not to laugh at him.
That was crazy.

Haha! I would have tried not to laugh too, that must have been hilarious!! I would have been like "Oh wow..."